PUBLIC ENEMY NUMERO UNO

Often, we spend time blaming others for our misfortunes, tragedy, and challenges. We find ways to include others for our decision-making power. Ultimately this belongs to you. When we reflect on these things, we lose the ability to grow and improve outcomes in the future. We all have heard that if you don't learn the lesson now you will in the future.

Let's talk about, embrace, and challenge enemy number one. Yeah, YOU!!

#1 You are impulsive and make decisions based on an emotion. You often react to situations and spend little time in thinking about consequences.

#2 You think too much and often do not make a decision when one is required. Your waiting is not calculated as you tend to use to protect yourself.

#3 You are intimidated and scared, so you allow others to make decisions for you. Even when you feel unsettled in it you choose to proclaim yourself as a helpmate, nurturer, or advocate of others, even if it negatively impacts you.

#4 You are riddled with guilt, so you make decisions that are intended to punish yourself. You never think about yourself first or appreciate that you have a place and space that is rightfully yours.

SO...... Which one of these characteristics describe you? Can you identify with any one of the things listed above? If so you have identified your biggest threat, your enemy? An enemy is defined as "A person that is ACTIVELY opposed or hostile... A thing that harms or weakens...". We often are quick to identify the "enemies" we think we have but fail to understand that at times we are the number one suspect in things that indicate crimes to ourselves.

Take a moment today to remember that you are enough. That any misstep does not define you and you deserve to create, build, and enjoy your own happiness. You should build a determinedness to surround yourself with those that can believe in you, fight for you, and be vocal in support of you. If you are not the leader in that then expect that those that follow will also hold the same dis

loyalties.

Be a leader and you will attract that. Be a hater and you will attract that. Be an enemy and you will indeed attract that.

Carry on and make it an amazing Friday.